I have never had sex. I am 21 (22 in May) and all my Os have been done by me. But I am not 100% if I actually had an O yet? Everyone describes the experiences differently. In the books, I read authors describe it as an earth-shattering, out of body experience while my friends laugh saying her BF has never made her O? (To be honest with her I believe her because I saw a Tiktok and all the men in that video could not show on the diagram where the clitoris was). I think I won't know if I have had the O a till I have sex...God knows when that will happen
